OMG, my coworkers are funny. I've been stopped a few times today (and in the past weeks) and been made fun of my walk. I don't know what it is or what they've been smokin' but they're picking my walk apart!
One coworker told me that my butt bounces when i walk. The next one (who was right next to the first one) told me that all the black men must drool every time i walk by. The third (who was also next to the first two) wanted to see me walk. All three embarrassed me horribly when the first one said that out of the blue. They were telling me that I had a confident walk, an air of self-assurance and such (which is totally far from the truth. i freely admit i have horrible self-esteem issues and am currently working on it. =-P ). Which reminds me not to wear my heels or stilettos anywhere near them anytime soon.
the next incident happened today, when one of the programmers i work with was walking towards me, hips and hands swaying from side to side, in a mimicry of other ladies who walk around. He then attempted to convince me that he wasn't wacko and that some of the ladies in the company walk like that. very "feminine feminine". whereas i was "normal feminine". *dies laughing* how could someone separate/extract/equate a way of walking (or swaying) as "feminine feminine" and "normal feminine"? is there any true concept to that or is he just smokin' some good stuff and not sharing?
which brings me back to my next question of curiosity. Does the way someone walks define the air of confidence in a person? does it bring out the sexiness in someone? does it turn u on when a hot body walks by? or are you not fascinated with booty and this series of questions don't matter cuz ur a "leg" or "chest" *coughBOOBIEScough* person?
if you answer yes to any of the above questions, tell me why? because my curious mind wants to know.
yes, i'm experimenting with colors. =-D i decided i want some more color in my journal entries. *muah*
the walk
Date: 2005-04-11 11:10 pm (UTC)The walk - that's part of body language right? So sure the way they walk can indicate some sort of confidence or lack thereof. Like those who walk with their chin up in the air shows they're OVERconfident maybe, and for those who slouch and walk face down to the ground, I'd say they're not very confident and not very approachable. If you're a woman who oversways (hehe), it just looks funny and we might say that she looks so vain. Sexiness probably doesn't come from the walk alone.
SURE! But I look at the face and smile more than the body.
Re: the walk
Date: 2005-04-11 11:28 pm (UTC)i dunno. i think the way someone walks is sexy because of the aura the person projects when walking. some people just radiate a sexy aura while others, you just can't tell if there's an aura there or not.
*huggles*
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Date: 2005-04-12 01:03 am (UTC)To be honest, I don't really notice a way a person walks.
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Date: 2005-04-12 05:37 am (UTC)hey...girls with junk in the trunk UNITE! don't hate cuz it's round and out there. ^_~
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Date: 2005-04-12 07:49 am (UTC)Happy now slave driver...? Ooooh whips and chains and leather and cuffs and *shiver* now I'm all horny again.
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Date: 2005-04-12 04:21 pm (UTC)as for me, i'm fairly shy (shaddup cousins! i know ur laughing!!! *mock glare*) in the way i barely look at people in the eye whenever i walk somewhere. I'm too busy in thought or daydreaming or enjoying the sun on my face or something.*shrugs* i don't think I slouch at all when i walk, hence the comment about a confident air. which i suppose I do have. i'm confident enough in knowing pretty much who i am (just gotta explore the outer edges ^_~) but yet, i know i'm insecure in many respects. don't know if guys will go for chicks with lots of curves and meat on their bones *points to self*
heheh, yet, i know i'm a tease at the clubs. the dirty dancing is just dancing and just for fun. And you are more than welcome to bounce the booty any day. *naughty look* *shakes da booty tauntingly up against you*
yay! i'm happy! *gives you lots of chocolate-covered strawberries* whips and chains and what? *curious* heheh...